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Are You Trying to Repair After Betrayal in Your Relationship?
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Are You Struggling With An Affair In Your Relationship?
We're so glad that you are here on this page today. It means you really care about your relationship and you're ready to do something about the growing distance between you and you'd like to know how to heal after infidelity.  
Does This Sound Like You?...
  • You haven't felt close, maybe you've felt like roommates for a while?
  • Maybe there has been an abrupt change in behavior, dress, or extracurricular activities?
  • Maybe you or your spouse work a lot of hours and possibly travel and you've lost what you once had?
  • Maybe one or both of you is not good at sharing feelings or asking for wants and needs?
  • Maybe one of you or both of you have come out and confessed to cheating?
  • Maybe you've found your partner posting inappropriate ads on craigslist or looking up old flings on Facebook?
  • Did you find alarming text messages or suggestive selfies?
  • Maybe someone called you to report suspicious behavior by your spouse when you weren't around?
  • Did you walk in on then having an affair, discover disturbing e-mails, or a suspicious phone bill?
These are just a few of the concerns that we've heard reported by our couples trying to pick up the pieces about infidelity.  You might be surprised to know that about half of all our couples have experienced cheating in their relationship.  

In fact, we have identified 10 different types of affairs.
For the Betrayed 
  • Have you discovered that your spouse has been with someone else?
  • Maybe you don't think it's an affair yet, but the fact that they are talking to someone else really bothers you and makes you feel uneasy?
  • Do you feel 'crazy' because your emotions are all over the map?
  • Maybe you have nightmares and you can't get the thoughts of what is happening out of your mind?
  • Do you have a huge list of questions to ask like, "How can I know this won't happen again?" or "Why?" or "Do you love me, or do you love them?"
  • Do you hate that you feel like an interrogator but every time they give you new information it feels like you have one more piece of the puzzle?
  • Do you feel like every time you get new information it's like you relive the pain all over again like it was yesterday?
For the Betrayer 
  • Does it feel hopeless, like nothing you say will make things better?
  • Does it seem like your partner is going crazy because one minute they want to save the relationship and the next minute your stuff is on the lawn?
  • Do you feel an intense about of shame about what you've done and you want to see if there is anyway you can fix things?
  • Do you feel confused because you haven't had sex with anyone and yet your spouse still thinks it's cheating?
  • Do they ask the same questions over and over again and it feels like an interrogation?
  • Do you feel like if you told them everything they might leave you or have a melt down so you try to give them information piece by piece to manage the pain?
  • Do you wonder why forgiveness doesn't seem to fix the problems?  They said they forgive you but they just don't let it go.
If any of this speaks to you it might help to know that when someone is betrayed there is a natural physiological response very much like Post-Traumatic Stress (not diagnosing anyone) but there are similar symptoms. 

 It can be impossible to calm the nerves and the fight-or-flight mode is on over drive. They just don't know if it will happen again. It's just impossible to forgive and forget until you both get help for the relationship.

Even if you "drop it" and try to move on it will come back later.  It can't be swept under the rug.  It will come up later when you try to get close and it's just so hard to have the same level of trust or intimacy you once had.
We Do Things Very Differently Here...
The counseling community is kind of like the medical community but also quite different.  

Doctors go to medical school and when they come out if they want to be a pediatrist, OBGYN, or cardiologist they have to have specialized training before they ever cut you open, right? It's their legal duty.

Well in the counseling community there are two extremes, on one hand we have relationship coaches who are not required to have any training, education, or license...so anyone can call themselves a coach.

Then there are professional counselors like us who have degrees, supervision, continuing education, licenses, and we're governed by the state.

But what the state says is "if you don't FEEL like you can help them, then you should refer them out"...but counselors are wonderful people who want to help. They also need clients so they see everything.

The average counselor will see kids, teenager, families, 10 different individual issues and then they sort of stick two people in a room and call it couples counseling. They try to do the same thing to help couples as they do with every other issue that walks into their office.

That is why we decided to focus on one thing. Therapists become jack of all trades and are not able to acquire the training and skill set necessary to really help couples succeed and succeed long term.
We are the only group practice in our state that exclusively focuses on helping couples heal and save their relationship.
Before the affair happened there was a negative cycle (that I will explain in the next video).  Now that the affair is discovered couples try to heal from this injury to the relationship with the same old negative cycle.

The last thing you want is to leave counseling and just go back to the same old patterns and habits you had before you came to counseling.  

You want it to work, right? That's why you pay us money and we devote all of our time to you. Because you want this to solve your relationship concerns.  

We know that the research surrounding our methods show that 90% of the couples maintain their improvement even 3 years after they finish.

So our couples get better and STAY better.
We are the best reviewed couples therapists in the state of Oklahoma.
The reason we are so highly reviewed is because we get results. You see a difference very early on and if you follow our plan for you, you will increase your success exponentially.

We have successfully helped hundreds of couples. If you want to be able to communicate with your spouse in a way that feels like they really get you, if you want to trust each other with the deepest part of your heart so you can relax again, and feel close emotionally and physically and feel deeply madly in love with each other again...we can help you!
Does this sound like something you could benefit from? Then Let's Talk About How This Works & So You Can Get Started!
Video #1: Let's Make Sure We Can Help You...
Video #2: Here's How We Can Help You
Video #3: Let Us Answer All Your Questions
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